Why are tomboys attractive - What makes you a tomboy?

But how do we point that out to people under control? Everyone has their thing, and there is nothing wrong with that, just as there is nothing wrong with being a tomboy.

But we never stop trying to define ourselves.

That, in its essence, is Fascism -- ownership of government by an individual, by a group, or by any other controlling private power.

And you can love who you want to love.

I think this is often why the question about what positive masculinity is comes up so often in this sub.

Which is kind of true for people in general, but moreso for those in positions of privilege I think, even if we are at the same time not privileged in other ways - the nature of intersectionality I guess.